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	<title>Comments on: How can you stop a subject of gossip spread too?</title>
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		<title>By: Gerri</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gerri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 08:31:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Explain to her that her attitude is bad for morale and is upsetting her co-workers. 

Is she in a position to be able to move up at some point in time? If so, then the behavior certainly needs to be squashed now.

I was editor of a small-town paper and I had one co-worker who worked the front desk who was always tattling. She would do things like call the publisher to tell her that I didn&#039;t write a story that she (the co-worker) suggested. She would tattle that I came it 3 hours late... despite the fact that I worked an extra 5 hours the night before, well after she went home. It caused a LOT of tension in the office, not just with me, but with others who she gossiped to or who she tattled on as well.

I guess she thought it was the only way she could look good and/or advance.

I ended up quitting, pretty much because of her. I considered it back-stabbing.

Anyway, before you end up losing other &quot;good&quot; employees because of this woman&#039;s behavior, you need to sit her down and explain to her that she is a good worker in her own right, and that she doesn&#039;t have to put down or tell on others to make herself look better. 

If she tries to tattle after you have this or a similar conversation with her, write her up! If you hear her gossiping, write her up! 

If she comes to you to tattle, don&#039;t listen. If you do, she&#039;ll continue the behavior.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Explain to her that her attitude is bad for morale and is upsetting her co-workers. </p>
<p>Is she in a position to be able to move up at some point in time? If so, then the behavior certainly needs to be squashed now.</p>
<p>I was editor of a small-town paper and I had one co-worker who worked the front desk who was always tattling. She would do things like call the publisher to tell her that I didn&#8217;t write a story that she (the co-worker) suggested. She would tattle that I came it 3 hours late&#8230; despite the fact that I worked an extra 5 hours the night before, well after she went home. It caused a LOT of tension in the office, not just with me, but with others who she gossiped to or who she tattled on as well.</p>
<p>I guess she thought it was the only way she could look good and/or advance.</p>
<p>I ended up quitting, pretty much because of her. I considered it back-stabbing.</p>
<p>Anyway, before you end up losing other &#8220;good&#8221; employees because of this woman&#8217;s behavior, you need to sit her down and explain to her that she is a good worker in her own right, and that she doesn&#8217;t have to put down or tell on others to make herself look better. </p>
<p>If she tries to tattle after you have this or a similar conversation with her, write her up! If you hear her gossiping, write her up! </p>
<p>If she comes to you to tattle, don&#8217;t listen. If you do, she&#8217;ll continue the behavior.</p>
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		<title>By: Seriously</title>
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		<dc:creator>Seriously</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 08:05:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>fire her.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>fire her.</p>
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		<title>By: Cat</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 08:04:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Cut her hours.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Cut her hours.</p>
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